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Critics: Kids' summers are too busy
12:09 PM CDT on Wednesday, July 20, 2005
Wendy McGahey and her 5-year-old daughter sat patiently under a shade
tree on the quiet Tarrant County College campus in Hurst.
Suddenly, students burst from buildings, flooding the courtyard while
lugging backpacks.
Mrs. McGahey greeted her two sons with typical mom questions: "Did you
find your classes OK? What did you learn today?" Her boys, ages 9 and
10, aren't college students yet. But for three weeks in the summer, they
invade the classrooms in the popular College for Kids program. They
spend mornings trekking around the campus to pre-algebra, paleontology
and stock market classes.
"It's definitely not the summer that we grew up with," said Mrs.
McGahey, a North Richland Hills resident. "There wasn't a lot of
learning computers when we were kids."
Welcome to the new summer vacation.
It's a time in some communities that has become a hybrid extension of
the school year.
With more camps, programs and enrichment activities than ever, many
children are spending the bulk of summer in structured or academic
programs – and less time riding bikes or running in the sprinkler.
As more moms and dads both work full time, city and school district
programs keep kids entertained in a safe environment in the summer. Some
parents, like those in Southlake Carroll, requested additional academic
programs in the summer.
But with some schools starting in early August, the glut of summer
opportunities can overwhelm families and leave little time for sleeping
late and playing with friends.
Kelsey Crawford, 9, of Southlake spends her summer in a school district
camp and other camps and classes for basketball, golf and cooking. She
also takes tae kwon do lessons.
She said she enjoys summer but sometimes wishes she had more time to
take it all in.
"I'd like to practice my basketball or my diving," she said. "I don't
always have the time to practice what I've learned in the camps."
Academic summer programs are joining traditional parks and recreation
day camps and residential youth camps. Many local school districts are
ready with enrichment academies during the summer that are branded fun
academics.
Grapevine-Colleyville, for instance, offers more than 40 summer
enrichment programs for $75 each. Southlake Carroll started its Dragon
Academy this year, with $80 classes attended by about 250 to 300
students.
Larger districts such as Dallas and Fort Worth offer art and cultural
programs that cost slightly less or are free. DISD partners with the
city and other community groups to offer summer arts programs.
College for Kids at Tarrant County College sites costs $160 for four
classes that run for three weeks. More than 500 people signed up on the
first day of registration in April.
The program, started in 1981, enrolled 400 more children this year than
last. Enrollment has increased by almost 1,000 students in 10 years.
Alvin Rosenfeld, author of The Over-scheduled Child: Avoiding the
Hyper-Parenting Trap, said as more classes are created, more parents
feel pressured to take them.
Dr. Rosenfeld said for some families, summer adds to a busy and
stressful school year. "This is something that society is telling us to
do," he said. "Every moment must be filled productively. That compulsion
– that's the story."
He said many parents fear that their children will fail in life if
they're not enrolled in activities.
"If you ask most kids, they'd say they would like some time to relax,"
he said. "People have lost faith in themselves as parents. They've
become so anxious. It's a real public health issue."
Ellen Galinsky, president of Families and Work Institute, a research
group in New York City, said summer can be an even more stressful time
for working parents who don't get a summer vacation from work. And
summer activities are key to surviving their kid's break from school.
"We have an idealistic view of what summer should be," she said. "Summer
is supposed to be a down time but for working parents, it's not."
Kenneth Gold, who wrote School's In: The History of Summer Education
in American Public Schools, said summer used to include more
teaching – and summer vacation as we know it didn't always exist.
Over time, more schools carved out July and August as a natural place
for a summer break, Dr. Gold said, as educators strived to standardize
urban and rural school schedules.
Dr. Gold said a concern that summer schooling would "oversaturate"
teachers and students helped usher in summer vacation.
Today, he said, parents want summer programs that are educational but
don't feel like school.
Dwight Pinnix has spent 27 years helping working and low-income families
bridge summer months through Irving Parks and Recreation programs.
Many of the kids attend his 10-week summer camp from 7:30 a.m. until 6
p.m. They swim, watch movies and visit local attractions like The
Science Place and the zoo.
He said many parents want a challenging program for children where they
are safe, not bored and can be with friends.
Mr. Pinnix said he grew up playing sandlot baseball in the summer. Now,
he said, parents are more cautious.
"We have to give parents affordable, organized things for their kids
where they're not overscheduled," he said. "We still have some kids who
sleep in and just show up at the rec centers to shoot pool or play
basketball. That never changes."
Mrs. McGahey of North Richland Hills tries to keep her kids' summer more
like her childhood.
But she juggles dueling realities: Keeping summer low-key can be
difficult when kids compare notes about their summer activities once
school starts.
So she enrolls her kids in some fun academic classes. Then balances the
rest of their days at the pool or at the movie theater or at home
playing games.
Alene Kaufman of Southlake grows wistful recalling her childhood spent
playing outside all day with friends. But, she adds, the world is a
different place for her son.
"None of this playing baseball in the street until midnight," she said.
Mrs. Kaufman looks for activities to keep her high-energy son, Vasiliy,
10, busy in the summer. She says she doesn't want to overbook him, but
he's got many interests.
So Vasiliy takes diving and reading classes. He's on the swim team and
will attend a basketball camp and a school camp late in July. He's at
the piano bench by 8 a.m. and has signed up for two cooking classes as
well.
In his spare time, he fishes, roller-blades and plays computer games.
"I'm signed up for a lot of stuff that's fun, but sometimes I like to
just play with my friends, too," he said.
At the new Bahama Beach water park in south Oak Cliff, kids scream as a
giant urn of water tips and douses them. The $5 million facility opened
this summer and has given families an affordable, traditional summer
option. Parents, youth group leaders and park officials said swimming in
the summer never gets old.
Nathaniel Lee said he wants to give his two children the kind of summers
he had, filled with church camp, a family vacation and plenty of down
time. He said having affordable options are important, too, because
summer can get expensive."During the school year, you can tell that
they're tired and restless," he said. "They need a break and a time to
just be a kid."
Ms. Galinsky of the Families and Work Institute said summer can be an
ideal time to build on children's interests – and help working parents
have fun. But she also cautioned that kids need a balance between
scheduled events and "hang-around time."
"Going out for ice cream, making pancakes on Saturday morning, staying
in your pajamas and playing games," she said. "When I ask kids what
they'll remember about their childhood it's not the trips or the camps,
it's the smaller family moments that stay with them."
E-mail lfox@dallasnews.com
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